AARGH. I got asked out. by A and I wasn't expecting him to do anything like that. That WAS NOT supposed to happen.I half expect H or something but I so did NOT see this coming! this isn't supposed to happen. What the hell am I supposed to do? I mean I work with him for god's sake and it's fun. having his company and talking and chating and having fun at work and all but I am soooo not looking for a relationship but I want to keep him as a friend. I hate this. I don't understand the rules of the game. I don't understand the game. I need someone american. maybe I need to tell chris.